Confidence in Yourself

When a child is born the first presence he feel is himself. He don't think that is he beautiful or not, what color of skin he have, which type of body he have. He don't think he can't do any thing. When child grownup then he is trap into the comments of people and he tries to be perfect. struggle to be perfect leads to an unhappy person who don't have it's own personality and is very confused in his life.
Everyone has it's own personality which is perfect for him and suits on the him. With that personality he can be more awesome then anyone else. with having your own personality what is the matter to follow other. following are the mistakes we make to deal with our self

What people will think

This is the most common thought which become a hurdle to be yourself. Life is too short to think about the comments given by people. life is short to do experiment what you don't like. This time will not come back so do what you want to not what other. You can't make everyone happy. if you really want to see someone smiling and appreciating you then simply go in front of mirror and the person in front of you should appreciate you. You should be smiling.

I can't do that

When you were entering into the world you didn't thought that you can't. Then why now thinking not to do anything because it look difficult to you. You have capacity to do that work that is why you had thought about that. Don't underestimate your power just start planing and struggling for what you want to do and don't give way to fear.

What if i lose

Oh really you are thinking about lose before trying. You should not thinking about to fail before the result come because result is last decision not your thoughts. If you lose what you wanted to get then think about what you have. It can be more important then the thing you wanted. Now you have learned from your mistake and it has became your experience so you haven't lost. You gave time to a process you love so you have precious happiness. Winning some thing is much more important then. What you have in the bag of your life.

I am very bad that i done it

Why you are blaming yourself. You are so awesome and it was just a mistake made by you. Past is to learn. You know that what mistake you had made in past so you will not do that again. Have courage to forgive yourself and let the walk continue. Thinking about past will take away present to you. just learn from past and enter into the day you have what you can change.

I should be like that one

So you are thinking someone is more then you. No, you should be like what you are.you should polish yourself not change yourself. one can be good at anything but you are awesome what your talent is. If you start thinking about what is the talent in others then time start when you are ignoring yourself. Try to look inside yourself so you will tell you what you can do.

BE YOURSELF